Saturday, October 19, 2013

P1. Weddings On A Tight Budget

Well first let me start by saying, 'Congratulations' on your up coming wedding. And I wish you the best wedding day and marriage.

Now if you're like me saving money is important and we all know that can be hard when planning a wedding. Well 'Wedding Diva' is here to help. With some tips to help save money, but still get the day you want ...

1) DIY (Do It Yourself)
    Doing it yourself is always a way to save money. And it's a cool way to really be a hands on bride and groom. From doing you party favors down to making you centerpieces. Doing this can be fun and a great way to really have it your way.

2) All In One Wedding's
      A lot of people think having your wedding ceremony and reception in the same place is a bad idea, but it really isn't. You could have the room flipped over from ceremony to reception ... or have the room already set for reception to save time. No matter how you do it, it can still be an amazing wedding day. And saves you money.   Having a all in one wedding, mean not having to rent car's or limousines all day to take you from place to place.

3) Hand'Me Down
      Yes ladies and gentleman, Hand'me Downs. Maybe someone you know has gotten married and still have left over wedding decorations, maybe favors that didn't get used anything that can be used and tie into your big day. This saves money and time. It also let's your friends really be apart of your day. 

4) Gifted Us Please
      Friends and family spent so much money on wedding gifts, bridal shower gifts, engagement party gifts and so on. So how about they gift you something, you could really use for your wedding. So if you have a friend that can really cook, then see if they are willing to gift catering for  your wedding or rehearsal dinner. Or if you have someone that are good at making things, then see they can gift you, your centerpieces, or favors.

5) Keep It Small
     We as brides, want to share our big days with everyone one we can. However bigger isn't always better. When planning your wedding, remember that this day is a step to the marriage and that's what's more important ..  You really only need yourself and a few close friends and family. People who have been around for you and your relationship. And want to really see you both happy within the marriage.  You don't need the girl who said you will never get married or the Guy who let you down, or the lady from next door.
  
You have to keep in mind when planning a wedding, that you have to go on with life when this day is over … and it's a way to have your day, your way without spending all the money you have saved.

Saturday, September 28, 2013

Plus Size Brides

Being a plus sized woman myself, I know for some of us, we don't/didn't see marriage in the cards for us. The world has became good at making us feel like, weddings and even marriage is for smaller women.

Becoming a bride is a wonderful thing, and becoming a wife is even better. So when it comes to trying on and buying a wedding dress don't be afraid. Go out and have fun with it, don't over think it all. You don't want to become overwhelmed.

Their are a lot more dresses  to pick from now, then it was years ago. Love the skin your in and enjoy that day of trying on your wedding dress. Plus size or not, every woman should feel special when it comes to this important moment. I have placed some dresses at the end of this blog for my plus sized 'Divas'

Tuesday, July 23, 2013

Our Disney Vow Renewal! (Plans in the making)

Well the Mr and I have plans on renewing our wedding vows. This time around it will be really small and out of the USA. We are planning and saving for this Disney Cruise Wedding Collection.  With this collection we, will be going to The Western Caribbean for 7 days. Our wedding will be on Disneys private tropical island 'Castaway Cay' . I am so happy we will be doing this, because it's what I wanted the first time around but I didn't want, any family or friends left out. So my loving husband is going out of his way to give me my dream wedding. We were going to do it sooner then later but after doing all that math, we need to save up, and plan out who to invite and give them time, to also save. So our plan is the 5th or 6th year wedding anniversary. That gives us time to save and also something big to look forward too. Here are some amazing photos.

Sunday, July 21, 2013

The Winter Wedding

Winter just sings happy times. It's the times for the hoildays and people just seems so much more happier. So this is one of the best times of the year to get married and have a big winter wedding . In the winter, we see a lot of slivers, whites, golds, and blues. Also in a winter wedding most people try to keep it safe and simple, with the up lighting of the wedding colors, and lots and lots of candle lights. So if you have been thinking about, having a winter wedding, here are some pictures of winter weddings.I hope they give you some ideas

The yellow and blue wedding

The yellow and blue wedding trend, is one of the better trends. Not a lot of people would put the colors together on the big day. But for the ones that do.. great pick

Saturday, June 8, 2013

Taking his name

Why, in 2013, does getting married mean giving up the most basic marker of your identity?" asks Jill Filipovic in the Guardian today. "And if family unity is so important, why don't men ever change their names?"

A name change can be a powerful move if you're renaming yourself in a way that gives you more agency — maybe you want to change your gender presentation, or maybe you just hate the name your parents chose for you back when you had no say in the matter. But studies show that more than 90% of women still change their names when they get married and 50% of Americans think you should be legally required to take your husband's name. Isn't it 2013? Filipovic writes:

That is fundamentally why I oppose changing your name (and why I look forward to the wider legalization of same-sex marriage, which in addition to just being good and right, will challenge the idea that there are naturally different roles for men and women within the marital unit). Identities matter, and the words we put on things are part of how we make them real. There's a power in naming that feminists and social justice activists have long highlighted. Putting a word to the most obvious social dynamics is the first step toward ending inequality. Words like "sexism" and "racism" make clear that different treatment based on sex or race is something other than the natural state of things; the invention of the term "Ms" shed light on the fact that men simply existed in the world while women were identified based on their marital status.

Your name is your identity. The term for you is what situates you in the world. The cultural assumption that women will change their names upon marriage – the assumption that we'll even think about it, and be in a position where we make a "choice" of whether to keep our names or take our husbands' – cannot be without consequence. Part of how our brains function and make sense of a vast and confusing universe is by naming and categorizing. When women see our names as temporary or not really ours, and when we understand that part of being a woman is subsuming your own identity into our husband's, that impacts our perception of ourselves and our role in the world. It lessens the belief that our existence is valuable unto itself, and that as individuals we are already whole. It disassociates us from ourselves, and feeds into a female understanding of self as relational – we are not simply who we are, we are defined by our role as someone's wife or mother or daughter or sister.

My mom kept her last name and never fails to roll her eyes whenever she's addressed as Mrs. Baker. Her last name is actually part of my full name, on my birth certificate (which is Kaitlin Jennifer Molly Lackman Baker, because my parents are insane), so it wouldn't completely fade away when she and her sister got married. I never even considered the possibility of being a stay-at-home mom because my mother worked full-time, and that's probably why I never even considered the possibility of changing my last name under any circumstances, either. It's always bothered me that some women feel getting married necessitates giving that part of yourself up; it seems so archaic.

But perhaps I'm particularly attached to my name because it's my byline, my professional identity. I don't think it's anti-feminist to change your name for your partner, but I'd like to move past the (incredibly heteronormative) assumptions that of course the woman should change her last name, of course the kids should take the man's surname, and of course a woman is a shitty wife if she's not willing to alter the way she's thought of herself throughout her entire life.
(http://jezebel.com/5989279/why-do-most-women-still-take-their-husbands-last-name) After  reading the above article I don't feel bad, for taking my time on changing my name. I have had people come for me, because I didn't jump to lose my last name. Taking someone's name is deep, you are taking apart of yourself away. And yes you can get it back if anything goes wrong with your marriage, but after everything you may have went through, why do through it. So I guess before running out to change your name, make sure your 100% sure you want to make that move.

Monday, May 27, 2013

Wedding Color Trend Of The Day( Tangerine Tanga and Hot Pink)

Tangerine Tanga and Hot Pink wedding colors is number 2, on the list of 2013 trends.
The two color's work really well together, the give and take of the colors makes for a really unique style of wedding.

Saturday, May 25, 2013

Mariah and Nick Cannon ( Disneyland Vow Renewal)

Nick Cannon and Mariah Carey was married on April 30 2008, on her private estate on Windermere Island in the Bahamas, after just six weeks of dating.
April 30 2011 on the couple's third wedding anniversary, Mariah gave birth to fraternal twins, daughter ' Monroe Cannon' and son 'Moroccan Scott Cannon.
So after a whirlwind romantic it's no wonder why on May 1 2013 just one day after the Cannon's fifth wedding anniversary and the twins second birthday they all celebrated both occasions at the Disneyland Resort.

The vow renewal was a fairy tail come true. At the Cinderella castle the beautiful family shared their love for each other and with the world.. So congratulations on Four years of marriage and on having two wonderful children. God bless.

The Mint Green Wedding

So after some research, I have found that the number one color of 2013 is ' Mint Green '
I can't say I am in love with this color, but I hope it grows on me.
Here are some photos. Let me know what you think in my comments.

Wedding Traditions and Superstitions – Part 2

History of Wedding Favors
Wedding favors have become an important part of marriage celebrations around the world. The tradition dates back thousands of years. Favors were given to guests in appreciation for sharing in the newlyweds’ special day.
Wedding favors are as diverse as the cultures surrounding them and the different cultures have different favors. Though there are a lot of differences, many of the traditions are similar. For example, it is quite common for many cultures to provide each guest with a wedding favor that contains five candies. Each piece of candy is a symbol of the five common wedding wishes: health, wealth, happiness, long life and fertility.
Favors are considered among the most important wedding accessory and range from very unique to practical. Chocolates, picture frames, candles and candle holders are some of the most popular wedding favors. Many brides today try to make some sort of a statement with their favors. Personalized wedding favors provide an especially effective way to display a brief message to the reception guests.
Historically favors were usually in the form of sugar, which was a very expensive product, so favors were commonly given by the upper class only. These sugary treats were nicely packaged and presented to guests at celebrations such as weddings, birthdays and christenings. When sugar became accessible to everyone, the custom of giving favors became wide spread. The most common sugared treat was the almond because of the symbolism behind it. Almonds represent the bitter aspects of life and the sugar represents the sweetness of life. Today, the tradition of giving five sugared almonds is still practiced. Many brides package them in netting, favor boxes, tins and gift bags.
Bridal Showers
Wedding showers derived from the time when men would prove their intent by bringing gifts to the bride’s father. Livestock, food, land, cloth and money were given to the bride’s family as "payment" for the bride. Eventually, this ritual evolved into men giving gifts of enticement to the daughter to show he was a man of good intentions. Fabric for clothes, the finest dishes and gold and jewels would prove that groom to be could provide a good home for her and their future children.
Some believe the tradition began in Holland when a poor couple was denied the bridal dowry because of the groom’s lowly status as a miller. The groom’s friends showered the bride with gifts to help them set up housekeeping, which evolved through the years into the tradition we now practice today,
Today, friends of the bride and groom ‘shower’ the bride (and sometimes the groom) with gifts to start their new lives together. It is believed to be good luck if the first gift the bride opens at her shower is the first gift she uses after the wedding.
Bachelor Parties
Bachelor parties originated with the soldiers of ancient Sparta. The groom feasted with his male friends the night before the wedding, pledging his loyalty and friendship to them. The soldiers provided loose women, food, drinks and good times for a night of male bonding. The function of this rite of passage was simply to say good-bye to the wild antics of single life while swearing the groom’s continued allegiance to his comrades.

All thanks too http://www.theamericanwedding.com/blog/2009/wedding-traditions-and-superstitions-part-2/

Wedding Traditions and Superstitions – Part 1

The Wedding Toast
When someone is toasting the bride and groom they should not raise their glasses like everyone else. Since they are the ones being honored, it is not considered polite to toast themselves.
Why do they call it a ‘toast’? It comes from the French custom of putting a piece of bread at the bottom of a wine goblet. The goblet was passed around to honored guests and the guest who got it last would eat the bread.
The Receiving Line
It was believed in ancient times that the bride and groom were blessed, and those who touched them would receive good luck and fortune.
The Garter
Tossing the garter is much like the bouquet toss, but for the single men. The single man who catches the garter is believed to be the next to marry. This custom originated in the 14th century when it was believed lucky to have a piece of the newlyweds’ clothing. Many times, the eager and drunken guests would destroy the bride’s dress in their attempt to gain a lucky charm. In order to prevent this from happening, the bride’s garters were removed and thrown to the unruly crowd to distract them. Today, the tradition of tossing the wedding garter is much tamer.
Why on the Left?
Have you ever wondered why the bride’s family is seated on the left side of the church and the groom’s side is seated on the right? The tradition stems from medieval times when men wore swords on their right side. It is said they needed that side free in order to draw their sword and protect his bride.
The Wedding Kiss
The wedding kiss symbolizes more than just an endearment. In Roman times, a legal bond or contract was always sealed with a kiss. Therefore, when newlyweds kiss, it represents an agreement to enter into a life-long contract with each other. Some believe the wedding kiss symbolizes an exchange of one’s soul with another. When the bride and groom kiss, their souls mingle together
All thanks too http://www.theamericanwedding.com/blog/2009/wedding-traditions-and-superstitions-part-1/

What does your wedding color's say about you?

I thought it would be cool to show you all, what the colors mean. And how that can impact what you pick for your wedding day color's.


Color Meaning


Red Color Red


Red is the color of fire and blood, so it is associated with energy, war, danger, strength, power, determination as well as passion, desire, and love.

Red is a very emotionally intense color. It enhances human metabolism, increases respiration rate, and raises blood pressure. It has very high visibility, which is why stop signs, stoplights, and fire equipment are usually painted red. In heraldry, red is used to indicate courage. It is a color found in many national flags.

Red brings text and images to the foreground. Use it as an accent color to stimulate people to make quick decisions; it is a perfect color for 'Buy Now' or 'Click Here' buttons on Internet banners and websites. In advertising, red is often used to evoke erotic feelings (red lips, red nails, red-light districts, 'Lady in Red', etc). Red is widely used to indicate danger (high voltage signs, traffic lights). This color is also commonly associated with energy, so you can use it when promoting energy drinks, games, cars, items related to sports and high physical activity.

Light red represents joy, sexuality, passion, sensitivity, and love.
Pink signifies romance, love, and friendship. It denotes feminine qualities and passiveness.
Dark red is associated with vigor, willpower, rage, anger, leadership, courage, longing, malice, and wrath.
Brown suggests stability and denotes masculine qualities.
Reddish-brown is associated with harvest and fall.


Orange Color Orange


Orange combines the energy of red and the happiness of yellow. It is associated with joy, sunshine, and the tropics. Orange represents enthusiasm, fascination, happiness, creativity, determination, attraction, success, encouragement, and stimulation.

To the human eye, orange is a very hot color, so it gives the sensation of heat. Nevertheless, orange is not as aggressive as red. Orange increases oxygen supply to the brain, produces an invigorating effect, and stimulates mental activity. It is highly accepted among young people. As a citrus color, orange is associated with healthy food and stimulates appetite. Orange is the color of fall and harvest. In heraldry, orange is symbolic of strength and endurance.

Orange has very high visibility, so you can use it to catch attention and highlight the most important elements of your design. Orange is very effective for promoting food products and toys.

Dark orange can mean deceit and distrust.
Red-orange corresponds to desire, sexual passion, pleasure, domination, aggression, and thirst for action.
Gold evokes the feeling of prestige. The meaning of gold is illumination, wisdom, and wealth. Gold often symbolizes high quality.


Yellow Color Yellow


Yellow is the color of sunshine. It's associated with joy, happiness, intellect, and energy.

Yellow produces a warming effect, arouses cheerfulness, stimulates mental activity, and generates muscle energy. Yellow is often associated with food. Bright, pure yellow is an attention getter, which is the reason taxicabs are painted this color. When overused, yellow may have a disturbing effect; it is known that babies cry more in yellow rooms. Yellow is seen before other colors when placed against black; this combination is often used to issue a warning. In heraldry, yellow indicates honor and loyalty. Later the meaning of yellow was connected with cowardice.

Use yellow to evoke pleasant, cheerful feelings. You can choose yellow to promote children's products and items related to leisure. Yellow is very effective for attracting attention, so use it to highlight the most important elements of your design. Men usually perceive yellow as a very lighthearted, 'childish' color, so it is not recommended to use yellow when selling prestigious, expensive products to men – nobody will buy a yellow business suit or a yellow Mercedes. Yellow is an unstable and spontaneous color, so avoid using yellow if you want to suggest stability and safety. Light yellow tends to disappear into white, so it usually needs a dark color to highlight it. Shades of yellow are visually unappealing because they loose cheerfulness and become dingy.

Dull (dingy) yellow represents caution, decay, sickness, and jealousy.
Light yellow is associated with intellect, freshness, and joy.


Green Color Green


Green is the color of nature. It symbolizes growth, harmony, freshness, and fertility. Green has strong emotional correspondence with safety. Dark green is also commonly associated with money.

Green has great healing power. It is the most restful color for the human eye; it can improve vision. Green suggests stability and endurance. Sometimes green denotes lack of experience; for example, a 'greenhorn' is a novice. In heraldry, green indicates growth and hope. Green, as opposed to red, means safety; it is the color of free passage in road traffic.

Use green to indicate safety when advertising drugs and medical products. Green is directly related to nature, so you can use it to promote 'green' products. Dull, darker green is commonly associated with money, the financial world, banking, and Wall Street.

Dark green is associated with ambition, greed, and jealousy.
Yellow-green can indicate sickness, cowardice, discord, and jealousy.
Aqua is associated with emotional healing and protection.
Olive green is the traditional color of peace.


Blue Color Blue


Blue is the color of the sky and sea. It is often associated with depth and stability. It symbolizes trust, loyalty, wisdom, confidence, intelligence, faith, truth, and heaven.

Blue is considered beneficial to the mind and body. It slows human metabolism and produces a calming effect. Blue is strongly associated with tranquility and calmness. In heraldry, blue is used to symbolize piety and sincerity.

You can use blue to promote products and services related to cleanliness (water purification filters, cleaning liquids, vodka), air and sky (airlines, airports, air conditioners), water and sea (sea voyages, mineral water). As opposed to emotionally warm colors like red, orange, and yellow; blue is linked to consciousness and intellect. Use blue to suggest precision when promoting high-tech products.

Blue is a masculine color; according to studies, it is highly accepted among males. Dark blue is associated with depth, expertise, and stability; it is a preferred color for corporate America.

Avoid using blue when promoting food and cooking, because blue suppresses appetite. When used together with warm colors like yellow or red, blue can create high-impact, vibrant designs; for example, blue-yellow-red is a perfect color scheme for a superhero.

Light blue is associated with health, healing, tranquility, understanding, and softness.
Dark blue represents knowledge, power, integrity, and seriousness.


Purple Color Purple


Purple combines the stability of blue and the energy of red. Purple is associated with royalty. It symbolizes power, nobility, luxury, and ambition. It conveys wealth and extravagance. Purple is associated with wisdom, dignity, independence, creativity, mystery, and magic.

According to surveys, almost 75 percent of pre-adolescent children prefer purple to all other colors. Purple is a very rare color in nature; some people consider it to be artificial.

Light purple is a good choice for a feminine design. You can use bright purple when promoting children's products.

Light purple evokes romantic and nostalgic feelings.
Dark purple evokes gloom and sad feelings. It can cause frustration.


White Color White


White is associated with light, goodness, innocence, purity, and virginity. It is considered to be the color of perfection.

White means safety, purity, and cleanliness. As opposed to black, white usually has a positive connotation. White can represent a successful beginning. In heraldry, white depicts faith and purity.

In advertising, white is associated with coolness and cleanliness because it's the color of snow. You can use white to suggest simplicity in high-tech products. White is an appropriate color for charitable organizations; angels are usually imagined wearing white clothes. White is associated with hospitals, doctors, and sterility, so you can use white to suggest safety when promoting medical products. White is often associated with low weight, low-fat food, and dairy products.


Black Color Black


Black is associated with power, elegance, formality, death, evil, and mystery.

Black is a mysterious color associated with fear and the unknown (black holes). It usually has a negative connotation (blacklist, black humor, 'black death'). Black denotes strength and authority; it is considered to be a very formal, elegant, and prestigious color (black tie, black Mercedes). In heraldry, black is the symbol of grief.

Black gives the feeling of perspective and depth, but a black background diminishes readability. A black suit or dress can make you look thinner. When designing for a gallery of art or photography, you can use a black or gray background to make the other colors stand out. Black contrasts well with bright colors. Combined with red or orange – other very powerful colors – black gives a very aggressive color scheme.

Thanks go out to http://www.color-wheel-pro.com/color-meaning.html